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First Dates: What To Avoid, If You Want To Attract Women. - An Excellent Guide To Learn More
Let's talk about the topic of attracting women. I often get queries about how to attract women, or the direction to go in order to attract women.
One common concern that guys have is how to steer clear of making those critical mistakes on the first date that avoids ever enjoying a second date or developing a sexual relationship (instead of a friendship).
I'm going to discuss a few of them in this post.
Well, there are certain mistakes a man may make. Allow me to summarize the most common ones here.
The biggest mistakes guys make on first dates are:
1) Speaking about themselves too much. Trying to be interesting rather than interested.
2) Not asking women questions and not listening enough.
3) Focusing excessively on sex- either overtly or by innuendo.
4) Not employing subtleties enough (What a woman understands)
5) Not creating sexual flow or interest.
6) Not creating future. (A relationship is all about future.)
The initial mistake that most guys make is that they start the first date and talk all about themselves, kind of strut around telling the girl that he has got this car, and he has got this career and he talks and talks and talks bragging about this and that attempting to impress the girl that he is an excellent catch.
What a girl sees is a self-centered ego maniac that isn't going to be able to look after her at all, because he isn't interested in her and does not listen to what she wants to talk about. A bad relationship prospect.
One other way of saying it is that guys try to be interesting. They figure they have to be interesting for a girl to be thinking about them. Sorry guys, but it fails that way. You have to be keen on the girl, not interesting to obtain her attention. Did you ever see two interesting persons on a date. It's hilarious! They're both so busy trying to be interesting to the other that neither has time to be interested in another.
If you do not know what I am speaking about, think what makes you feel better. A girl who is serious about you? Or a girl who is letting you know how cool she is, how hot she really is, and so on, and all kinds of other interesting things.
Interesting leads to many rejections and "platonic" friendships incidentally. Girls will be friends with a guy who is interesting. Why? Girls love to be amused and entertained. Interesting guys are kind of like children to them. An origin of non-sexual amusement and pleasure.
That is all we have room to discuss about here, but you will get more data on the other five mistakes at Dating To Relating.
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