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How To Meet A Female
You know, men ask me about "meeting women " and "how to pick up women " and other such topics incessantly .
But honestly the best answer for all of these type of questions is "experience."
But by now you are saying "but how do I get experience when I don't know where to go or how to approach women?"
You get experience any way you can. Go wherever there are lots of women and just practice. Don't worry if you are perfect. Just practice and get the experience yourself. Sooner or later you will learn on your own and you will start getting dates. Yes that's right - no matter how unattractive, stupid, poor or old you are. If you just practice you will start getting dates.
And when you start getting dates. Then date, date, date, date, date!
It is often called multiple or serial dating.
To start with, let me explain that I am very big on monogamy and have never cheated on a wife or girlfriend, but when I am between relationships I am equally big on multiple or serial dating.
And I am not talking about people who multiple or serial date their entire lives. Obviously those people have some major relationship problems.
But, serial dating applied in the right context is not only not dysfunctional, but it is quite the opposite. Serial dating done to get a better understanding of the opposite sex, so you can figure out who you are partial to, and what you like, and what kinds of people like you, is about the most mentally healthy thing you can do.
What do you think most parents told their adolescent sons and daughters?
They said: "Don't get very serious with one person, you need to date and meet a lot of girls/guys."¯
It may seem childish, but this teenage advice is what most adults who are dating need to remember.
Most of us adults never really followed good old mom and dad's advice. We alternatively met someone we kind of liked and hooked up with them and ignored the rest.
Sort of like, we got together with the first acceptable person who showed some real interest in us.
Regrettably, there is a big difference between "acceptable¯" and "ideal"¯ and also unfortunately most people normally continue this pattern of hooking up with the first "acceptable"¯ person who comes along well into adulthood.
We call this "compromising"¯ or "settling"¯ and in the final analysis it leads to unhappiness in relationships, and a failure to have an understanding of the opposite sex.
You see there are many different types of people in the world and, believe it or not, there is someone for everyone. But the problem is you may have to meet a heck of a lot of people to find that one someone.
Another problem is that many people are so confused about life and relationships and people, they don't really have any idea of what kind of personality is a good match for them. They base their ideals off of the Hollywood imagery of what they think they want.
The cure is uncomplicated. When you date and meet lots of people, sooner or later, you figure it out for yourself. It's a natural process. You get comfortable with people, you realize that everyone is different, and that different types of people like different types of people. Eventually you figure out what kind of person you are and what kind of people you get along with best.
And lo and behold, that is all us "dating gurus" have ever done to meet women and attract women . We have just gone out and got a lot of experience.
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